Minimalism Update: Two Things I’ve Learned in the Last Four Years

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After four years on my minimalist journey, here’s what I’ve learned:

  1. I’m pretty good at purging.
  2. I’m also pretty good at bringing in new things to fill the empty space.

Until recently I’ve approached minimalism with a feast-or-famine mentality: I’ve done really well at resisting “stuff” for a while, but then I’ve felt the need to reward myself for resisting said stuff, so I’ve treated myself to more stuff. And then I’ve felt guilty for bringing in more things, so I’ve purged, and replaced, and purged, and replaced. It’s an expensive, exhausting, and unnecessary cycle. But it’s just felt like the thing to do.

It wasn’t until I came to terms with wanting more out of life that I understood and really, truly, started to want less. My son’s arrival has made me want more of everything that makes life worth living:

  • Time
    Love
    Health
    Security
    Adventure
    Generosity

And in order to make room for these things that matter so much to me, I have to learn to (and want to) let go of the things that don’t:

  • Debt
    Worry
    Possessions
    Perfection

I’ve got a long way to go in the next four years. I’ve got a mind, home, and schedule to clear. I’ve got more concrete priorities to set. But the good news is I can let go. Now I just need to learn to keep that space free.


What have you learned on your minimalist journeys?

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4 thoughts on “Minimalism Update: Two Things I’ve Learned in the Last Four Years

  1. Nice post, it’s amazing how much we gain, by giving up “stuff”. I have learned, how much less stress I feel by giving up all the excess. Thanks for sharing!

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